A reader asks: "My husband and I grew up in the 1980s, when getting a nose job was not uncommon in our social circles. My husband had one. Our daughter is 12, and she has her father’s original nose. Lately, she’s told us that she doesn’t love her nose and that it’s unlike anyone else’s in the family. My husband wants to tell her about his surgery — with the proviso that he would make a different choice today. But I think he should keep it to himself. I don’t see how sharing this information would help our daughter, and it may harm her. Still, I know this is my husband’s story to tell. Thoughts?