Batuleke
@batuleke
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I have four girlfriends, we've all been friends since high school. We're all 28 years old now.
Recently, two of my friends got proposed to on the same day. And I'm kind of happy for them, but shit... They with their men maximum a year together, and I with my man for 7 years and when I talk about marriage, I get: “I'm not ready, I do not care, the stamp does not solve anything, I love you and so love, why spend money, wedding is a trampled concept ...” or just freaks out and leaves. It seems necessary to leave, but I love him... Now I remember happy friends and I want to cry.....
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@batuleke A new employee has joined our office. She seems to have everything going for her - pretty, smart, calm, sociable - but she can't find a common language with anyone in the department. Our department is friendly and companionable. A lot of celebrations together, a lot of out-of-work outputs, all sorts of secret santas and internal congratulations always. But no one wants to take her and kind of inconvenient, because everyone goes, and she is not, and on the other hand why should we be inconvenienced if a person can not fit in any way can not. And everyone demonstrates this fitting in in different ways, someone tries to smooth it out, and someone snorts and defiantly turns away. I just feel uncomfortable in front of the person...
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@batuleke Over the last year I noticed that more and more of my classmates and classmates are getting married and having children. I used to think that it was all in vain, without love, and that unhappy girls were cheated on by their husbands. Now I realize I was trying to console myself with that. Three years without a relationship, I work from home, I go out once every 2 weeks. Even when delivering, I ask to leave the order at the door, so that unnecessary time not to contact.
Recently there was a desire to get married, to give birth to children, but only not cool with anyone. I go to a psychologist, but from this even more mess in my head, I do not understand whether I really want love/family or just do not want to be worse than others. By the way, I'm 24. Have you had similar thoughts? Have you been able to figure it out?
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