I have a few early-30s female friends in the USA who are talking about doing the Korea "4B" radical feminist thing. 

I think they don't realize that's not going to work out well for them.  

I did this without some “4B” purpose behind it. I’m not a man hater it’s just that every time I “put myself out there” seems to go worse than simply not trying at all, I’ve been disincentivized 

Ie, the story I told about getting asked out on a date, saying yes and then having the guy spew Trump time travel conspiracies 

He was 6ft+ tall nice looking guy too just stone cold crazy

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This stat is old since it comes from Susan Faludi’s “Backlash” but the mental health continuum of wellness goes something like this:

Best Mental Health 
Married man
Single woman
Single man
Married woman
Worst Mental Health

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My mental health is not great atm tbf LOL

In the paraphrased words of Gloria Steinem, “Sounds like you need a wife who can take care of you.”

Apologies to Ms. Judy Brady, author of “I Want A Wife” published in “Ms. Magazine” in 1971. Ms. Steinem founded the magazine which I must have conflated.

Apologies to Ms. Judy Brady, author of “I Want A Wife” published in “Ms. Magazine” in 1971. Ms. Steinem founded the magazine which I must have conflated. 

https://www.columbia.edu/~sss31/rainbow/wife.html