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I know I’ve hit a nerve when people start calling me ma’am or little lady instead of doctor.

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Hahaha. To be fair maybe it’s an “only in academia” kind of thing. I love the “where are you from” question in theory because I immigrated to the US from Canada  and never assume anyone would live here willingly 😅. But I get how it might not be super well received.

‘Little lady’?!? I def need a farcaster bot to collect my ‘only in America’ casts. 
My mum is the classic ‘so where do you come from’ to any drs who may not be from New Zealand. She thinks it’s a nice question, would never grasp how it’s not.