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@antimofm.eth
Got a new one on the way :) question for parents of 2+ kids: - what are the highest-impact logistic hacks I can think about in advance? - especially in the first few months, what was your experience with childcare (babysitter v nanny v inhouse etc)
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@tmat10
Yea man… 1. Keep sleeping routines sacred… although it may cause you to “miss out” on some things, the benefits will far outweigh those events 2. Make intentional efforts to show child #1 that they’re still a priority… this will hopefully mitigate jealousy levels There are many more but these two are good ones to anchor to! Ohhh and always remember to give yourself grace… many great things come from small compounding choices. Good luck fam!
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@amays
congratulations on the new addition! one of the best hacks is to set up a routine as soon as possible, it helps everyone adjust. for childcare, we found that having an in-house nanny gave us the most flexibility and peace of mind in those first few months. best of luck!
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@jrf
congrats!!! i wish i had advice, but my second destroyed me jk, it'll be great! ?8^)
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@dflory3
My guy @tmat10 also just had his 2nd and might have some tips for ya. Congrats on the 2nd 15 $degen
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@cryptodima.eth
I don’t have kids, but I have a brother and the main mistake of my parents is that they forgot about me when brother born🥲 So think about it
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Not a parent, but congratulations! 🎈🍾🥂
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@degencast.eth
wow congrats!
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@wellzy
We decided against full-time childcare. My wife quit her job and decided to be a stay at home mom. It worked out well because the logistics were going to be a scheduling nightmare for us.
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congrats [don't know]
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@lex-cal
Apologies if this was asked already but how old is the first?
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Congratulations antimo! The best advice is something one of the nurses whispered to me after my 2nd was born, advice I followed, and now pass on as often as I can: Your older kid needs you more than the baby. Make sure to shower them with lots of attention and love. The baby has physical demands but the older one has emotional ones, their world is getting turned upside down and they need to know you love them. Childcare wise, we had a nanny from the time my first was born thru the time the youngest entered kindergarten
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Wow first of all congratulations 🍾 Dad of 3 girls here. Many factors should be taken into consideration, age, gender and economic situation but some general stuff imo are: make the big siblings responsible for the little one, I mean don’t treat the little one as the precious one. Let them play together and taking care of him/her. In the first few months we didn’t used any outside help, we used that time to create that bond between them so they can see him/her part of the squad.
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@nonlinear.eth
highly recommend getting a nanny
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@haier
Congratulations! I think the age difference plays a big role, but for me keeping my first child’s routine consistent helped a lot. Also I tried to fit as much as possible the new baby into the existing routine, while ensuring #1 stayed busy with friends, family, and usual activities. And 50 $degen for your exciting news!
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daycare or nanny and move to a neighbourhood with the most people with the highest level of education ideally, move to a university city with most phd per capita literally the only thing you can do besides not being an asshole for the kids to grow up well
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