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I saw this video popping like crazy on my X feed today. Seems to be another instance of a controversial arrest of a black man (here Tyreek Hill) in America and as expected, everybody picked a side. I watched the whole video, but I have to say, I'm a bit confused. A few thoughts: -The officers looked short tempered and agressive, but not at first. -Hill kept calling the officers "bro" šŸ™„ -Hill rolled up his tainted window while interacting with the officer šŸš© -Refused to sit down after being asked to. Said it's because he just had knee surgery, but also, played football later that day? šŸ¤” -The guy in the other car not showing his Driver's licence after being asked 10 times. I mean, I know there's history of police violence, even police killing citizens in the US. But in this case, there's none of that (there's been rough handling of Hill for sure, but Hill didnt show his best behavior either), so I'm really curious as to why it seems to have become such a controversial arrest? šŸ˜³
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What's wrong with calling someone "bro"? Why the nitpicking?
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Is this a serious question? You're being pulled over by the police, and you think calling the officer "bro" is going to get you the best outcome? If you seriously think so, I can't do anything for you...
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ā€œbroā€ is much more of a cultural thing than disrespecting someone, itā€™s like saying ā€œmanā€ but even so, talking how you want to an officer shouldnā€™t provoke any reaction on their part, otherwise they shouldnā€™t be on the force not being able to talk how you want is called ā€œcompelled speechā€, and iā€™m pretty sure people who historically depend the police hate it
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I have nothing against you Youssef, but I'm sorry, defending "bro" as an acceptable term to use when addressing a law officer is straight up bad faith argument. This is like, 101 basic social interactions practices. Here, I'm not saying calling someone bro justifies for any retaliation, but when you interact with another human, the way you talk, behave, etc...Does influence the other person's response. It's just delusional to think that because he's a cop, he's gonna have a robotic answer that's not gonna take into account any context element šŸ¤·ā€ā™‚ļø
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You are talking about something you genuinely donā€™t know and are being overly confident about it. I know that because if you think that something is ā€œbad faithā€ while the vast majority of reasonable Americans (incl. officers) would agree with it, then you just donā€™t know about it, and thatā€™s fine. I personally donā€™t consider your POV to be in bad faith, I just think youā€™re off base on this aspect of American culture, and probably more off base with American police culture. ā€œBroā€ is simply not the word you think it is. And yes, it might be stupid for someone to talk a certain way to an officier (even if ā€œbroā€ isnā€™t an insult), but re-read this thread, it started because you put ā€œbroā€ at the same level as the other bullet points.
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Do you have data to sustain your point? ("while the vast majority of reasonable americans (incl. officers) would agree with it"). I will gladly strike this bullet point if you show me the data, but I *highly* doubt that a majority of ppl in the US think it's appropriate to call a police officer "bro" when being pulled over. Most cops, when they pull you over, address you as "sir", and I'm pretty sure that's what's in their training program. If they adress you with "bro" or "man", that's a fault, and righfully pointed as such. Yes it goes both way, but I don't recall hearing the police officer calling Hill "bro".
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I donā€™t because I doubt studies about things like that exist, and itā€™s not not worth it to me to look that up, feel free to satisfy your curiosity, or just ask a bunch of Americans. But btw you changed my framing, I never said ā€œappropriateā€, I said not disrespectful, letā€™s not change the words. About the second point, I think you missed what I said and went in another direction. When interacting with officers, what ultimately matters (especially in the US) is the law, not ā€œexpectationsā€ (that no one can define, incl. you me or a judge). If the officer (in general, not the video) doesnā€™t respect that they stop being a cop and start becoming a criminal. Thatā€™s the basis of a lawful country. But the actual point I was making is that officers (as you pointed correctly) are trained, citizens are not. Acting like they should is a horrendous slippery slope.
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Ok, let me answer point by point then. It might not be disrespectful, but it's also not appropriate. Where does that leave us?If you want to categorize things as insulting<disrespectful<un-appropriate, I have nothing against it, but we're still being left with something un-appropriate that needs to be changed into "appropriate". Now, with the law Vs expectations. If you want to go there, let's go there. It's not against the law either for a police officer to pull you of your car and cuff you if you fail to comply to his requests multiple times (which is the case here). It's also not against the law if he handled you roughly to do so, as long as he's not beating you up. So if you want me to give in on the "expectations", I'll gladly do so if you admit the perfectly lawful character of this intervention.
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The first point doesn't really make sense. Don't know what you are trying to argue, I'm sure it's not "not appropriate language gives cause to cops", but it really looks like it. For the second point, you're again changing the conversation, I'm not talking about your other initial bullet points, this conversation started with the bullet point about "bro". You are trying to argue about things I am not talking about. Funnily enough, the fact that you have to go to other bullet points to continue this conversation shows how weak the one about "bro" was, which was the reason I responded. If you want to respond to the stuff I brought up, related to cultural expectations and how "bro" is not, in the slightest, disrespectful, then you can respond to it, but don't move the goalpost by responding with things that are unrelated.
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Why does your definition of "appropriate" need to be adopted by everyone in the society? Millenial black managers are OK with being called "bro" by Gen Z black employees. But no, everyone has to OBEY + abide by white culture "appropriate". I actually like your frame of thinking re: insult < disrespectful < inappropriate, but when we arrive that level of low stakes (i.e. something not even disrespectful), culture captures a much bigger part of the conversation and that's why you see progressives or leftists blaming people like you of racism.
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