manansh ❄️
@manansh
Thoughts on getting married at 22? I have a friend who’s getting married this year and it SCARED me. Is it a good idea to get married that early?
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✳️ dcposch on daimo
@dcposch.eth
How long have they known each other? Are they emotionally mature? Do they have a healthy relationship?
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manansh ❄️
@manansh
Like 4 months. Which shocked me. Made me reflect on what marriage actually means. Not sure what the value prop is.
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✳️ dcposch on daimo
@dcposch.eth
Ya 4 months is stretching it. But getting married young in general is underrated, I think Too many people are trying to preserve optionality indefinitely. Leaves them without a home base, without a specialty, without a family, without a community
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manansh ❄️
@manansh
This is a really great way to frame it. I really appreciate that you mentioned this. I was starting to feel that way too…
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Alyssa 🪷
@0xwaw
The way culture is now, I think we’re swinging on the opposite side of pedulum of a nuclear family aka that optionality mentality. Neither is necessarily right or wrong but both have its trade offs. Depends on your values and long terms goals.
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nemb
@nemb
And also it depends on WHY you want to get married in the first place. Marriage is actually just a legal contract, nothing more. A union does NOT need a marriage to be strong. Needing to sign something to feel bonded is a perception blind spot in my opinion. So if you REALLY feel that the person is the right one, do it
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